Practice Smiling
When I was interviewing Jo Ellen Soesbee last week for my podcast, she said something towards the end that I couldn’t stop thinking about. She was driving along and happened to notice that she could see the driver in front of her in his side-view mirror and she thought, “Does that mean that others can see me in my side-view mirror?”
Apparently, the gentleman in front of her did not look very happy. In fact, he looked downright grumpy by all accounts. That’s when Jo Ellen decided to practice smiling. She didn’t want people to think that she was grumpy!
This practice served her well when a client called and said, “I hired you because when I saw you in your truck, you were smiling.” Wow! Landing a job because you smiled while you were driving!
Jo Ellen has practiced smiling so much that on a recent girl’s weekend her friends accused her of even smiling in her sleep! Now that’s some serious smile practicing if you ask me. 🙂
I decided I would try it out and over this last week I’ve simply tried to smile while I was driving. Honestly, I felt pretty silly at first and if I knew someone was close enough to see me I acted as if I was listening to some funny comedian on the radio and laughed out loud!
While I am not perfect at this smiling while I’m driving thing, it has changed my attitude while I drive to be a little more polite and a little more understanding of others while they drive.
Smiling matters!!
I will keep practicing, Jo Ellen! To hear more on Jo Ellen Soesbee come on over to the podcast, Lauri’s Lemonade Stand on iTunes by following this link: Lauri’s Lemonade Stand Positivity Podcast I bet you won’t be disappointed!
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- An Art Journal :: filled with pages of color, collage, drawings
- A Travel Journal :: a reflection on and memories concerning a trip away from home
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- A Family Journal :: a place where everyone in the household can express themselves whenever they like (such a keepsake!)
- A Letters Journal :: where you write all the letters you will never send but have to put out there
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- A Poetry Journal :: write down all your favorite poems, the ones that really move you, all in one journal
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- The Things I Never Want to Forget Journal :: memories throughout your life that you want to treasure forever
- A Journal of My Favorites :: a place to record all those things you love the most, like your favorite restaurant, movie, song, scent, season…
- A Journal of Recipes :: all the tried and true yummy food and the ones you’d like to make
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- A Healthy Me Journal :: what you eat each day, goals for being healthier, an exercise log, etc.
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- A Money Journal :: where you record all the money that comes into your life and how you spend it; a pretty and concise way to watch your pennies
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International Women’s Day Part 1 of 4
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